You need to think about something else, Des. Your brother is being a douche, so just let him be a douche. He obviously doesn't want help even though that's all we're trying to do. If he wants to be miserable, well, let's just let him be miserable. I know that sucks, I would never want to have Ben be miserable, but, sometimes they have to just learn ( Read more... )

Happy Birthday Desmond!

( And for your gift... )